Dreams are renewable. No matter what our age or condition, there are still untapped possibilities within us and new beauty waiting to be born.

-Dale Turner-

Senin, 04 Agustus 2014

SICK

Assalamualaikum everybody !

it's August ! and its my Month :) Alhamdulillah i was passed my Ramadhan with many HIkmah and experience
Where i'm learn to give, share, Ikhlas,patient and try to closer with Allah, although i know, everything i did still not perfect. Im try my best.
Ramadhan Last month give me something
I got accidenct in my Flat. i'm living alone in that town because i should finishing my college in that town.
just little accident, but that's hurt enough and finally iknow, that's made my leg bone fractured.. 
what can i do after that? i just cried and i'm really worried if something bad will happened.
but suddenly i remember something ..
"Certainly, We shall test you with fear, hunger, loss of wealth, lives and fruits; but give glad tidings to the patient - those who, when afflicted with calamity say, "Truly to Allah we belong, and truly to Him shall we return." it is those who will be awarded blessings and mercy from their Lord; and it is those who are the guided ones." [2:155-157]




Holy saying of Allah‘ Oh Son of Adam if you are patient and sacrificed for Allah's reward when you receive the first shock of an affliction I wouldn't accept less than Paradise for you as a reward for you.
So a believer needs to display patience and submission during sickness and hardships, hunger, or other afflictions. And shows gratitude and thankfulness for all the wonderful blessings that Allah grants him.
Prophet Ayoub (Job) told his wife when she asked him to ask Allah for a relief from his sickness, I'm shy from my God to ask him because I haven't spent in this difficult situation except a short time if compared to the time I was in good. 


Some traditions say ‘Hardships continue to befall a believing man and woman in their body, family, and property, until they meet Allah burdened with no sins.'
The amount of reward is in accordance with the amount of suffering. When Allah loves some people, He tries them with affliction. He who then is content with Allah's decree has achieved the acceptance of Allah, and he who is dissatisfied (with Allah's decree) will attain the anger of Allah. Whenever Allah wills good for a person, He subjects him to adversity.
Tradition “The parable of a believer is that of a fresh and moist plant; the wind tilts it this way and that way; and so is the believer; he continues to be subject to affliction. And the parable of a hypocrite is that of a firm cedar tree; it does not shake - until it is uprooted all at once."

Subhanallaah, And Allah Give it for me in Ramadhan time, I never Curse it, i never feel down, Allah know everything about us, something good or bad.its reward for me, not disaster, Allah still love me..
i got another explain from deen article, i'll share, that's : 


Trial:
Trial is not disliked in itself but the result of it is disliked. If one is patient and tolerant under trial then he succeeded in this trial. This is what's liked in Trials. Allah almighty knows all our characteristics before he put us under Trials but these tests are for people to test and take example from one another.
Now, as for man, when his Lord trials him, giving him honours and gifts, then he says, (puffed up), "My Lord has honoured me. "But when he trials him, restricting his subsistence for him, then he says (in despair), "My Lord hath humiliated me!" 89:15-16
what are Allah's blessingsBlessing wouldn't be considered an honouring from Allah to His servant unless Allah gives him the ability to behave wisely in it. Allah's right in the blessing is for us to praise Him for it.
Affliction are by Ranks of RighteousnessThe prophets and righteous people are afflicted the most, and their rewards are the highest.
Tradition "The most in their suffering among the people are the prophets, then the best, then the (next) best, one is afflicted in accordance with his Deen- religion . If his deen- religion is firm his affliction is hard, and if his deen- religion is weak, his affliction is light. Indeed, one would be so much subjected to adversity until he walks among the people without any sins."
Tradition "When Allah wills good for a servant of His, He speeds up his punishment in this life; and when He wills retribution for a servant of His, He holds his sins for Him to judge him by them on the Day of Resurrection."
Rewards for Sickness

One should not look to sickness as a gloomy episode, but should remember the great good in it. It is one form of affliction with which Allah tests His servants, giving them a chance to acquire rewards.
Removal of Sins and Elevation in Ranks

Tradition "Whenever a Muslim is afflicted by harm from sickness or other matters, Allah will drop his sins because of that, like a tree drops its leaves."
Tradition "Expect good because Allah makes a believers sickness amends (for his sins) and a period of rest. However, when a disbeliever falls sick, he is like a camel whose owner ties it then lets it loose - it does not understand why it was tied nor why it was freed."
once some pain afflicted the Prophet (peace be upon him) causing him to suffer and turn about in his bed. His blessed wife said: "Had one of us done this, you would have blamed him." He peace be upon him replied:
"An ailment is intensified for the righteous. whenever a believer is afflicted by a hardship, either it is a thorn or more, a sin is taken off from him because of it, and he is elevated by one rank in heaven )."

A person's life goes through alternating periods of happiness and dismay, strength and weakness, wealth and poverty, health and sickness, etc. A true believer is one who maintains a clear level of Iman-faith throughout the worldly fluctuation. He continues to remember Allah and ascribe the bounties to Him; and he turns to Him in submission, asking for relief from his affliction

Thats clear enough ? May Allah Always bless us :)

Waassalam

Senin, 05 Mei 2014

Untukmu Sayang

Dear calon imamku tersayang

Terimakasih sayang, sudah datang kedalam hidupku dan ada untukku, meski lenganku tak cukup dekat untuk kau sentuh..
Darl Sayang,

Aku berharap kamu adalah pria terbaik yang benar-benar tepat untuk menjadi imam dalam shalat ataupun dalam hidupku.
Sayang..

Aku tak sungguh sempurna untukmu,terlalu banyak kekurangan, tapi bukankah kau ada untuk menlengkapiku?
 

Sayang, selayaknya wanita biasa, ada banyak hilafku, tapi ku harap cintamu takkan mudah  pudar, ku harap kita jauh lebih kuat dan besar dari masalah masalah yang datang.                                                        Sayang tetaplah menjadi lelaki terbaikku yang siap akan segala kemungkinan yang terjadi nanti, seiring waktu kita bersama.

Sayang, aku mau bertanya

Apa kamu sudah siap mencintaiku selamanya walau nanti aku tak lagi cantik?

Apa kamu akan siap menemaniku selamanya bila nanti aku jatuh sakit?

Dan apa kamu akan selalu sayang bila ada sesuatu yang buruk menimpaku?

Sayang, Aku janji

Aku akan Siap sedia menjadi Chef tersayang di rumah kita nanti

Aku takkan bosan membangunkanmu setiap hari untuk pergi ke kantor
Takkan Bosan menyiapkan breakfast untukmu setiap pagi
aku akan menunggumu pulang bekerja dan memijatmu yang kelelahan
Aku akan selalu ada disetiap kondisimu
Akan selalu siap menjadi ibu yang merawat anak- anak  kita dengan sepenuh hati
Baby siter paling cantik yang pernah kamu miliki :)
Dan akan sabar mendidik buah hati kita nanti


Tapi sayang, kamu juga harus janji padaku,

Kamu bukan seseorang yang mudah putus asa dan  mudah meninggalkan taggung jawabmu sebagai suami dan ayah
Takkan kasar dan tak mudah marah kepadaku dan anak-anak kita kelak..

sayang.. ketahuilah
Aku takut bila nanti kamu hanya manis diawal saja :(
Dan kamu akan melukaiku
Jika nanti aku salah atau saat kamu sedang ada masalah Kau akan melampiaskan kemarahanmu padaku
Jangan ya sayang, Aku bukan media pelampiasan amarahmu
Aku mohon jagalah aku seperti kamu menjaga ibu dan saudari perempuanmu
Jika aku salah..
Aku mohon kamu tidak akan membentakku
Cukup diberi nasihat apa kesalahanku dan apa yang harus aku lakukan. percayalah,
Aku pasti akan menuruti apa yang akan kau perintahkan selama itu baik :)

Walau aku butuh ketenangan dalam diam..
Aku harap bila nanti aku menangis ..
Pelukanmu yang akan menenangkanku ..
Menghapus lukaku ..
dan selalu ada disampingku dalam kondisi apapun
Bila nanti aku marah, aku sedih, dan aku kecewa
Aku harap kamu punya cara untuk mengatasi ini semua
Jangan biarkan aku berlarut sendirian tanpamu
Saat aku meminta kamu untuk pergi
Disaat itu pula aku ingin kamu tetap disini menemaniku..


Sayangku..
kau telah membuatku bangga, akan indahnya dimiliki dan dicintai oleh kamu :)
sayang ketahuilah..
Aku ingin menjadi dewasa bersamamu
Bukan membuatmu menjadi dewasa bersamaku..

Imamku sayang..
Aku mau kamu berjanji satu hal lagi padaku..
Kamu tidak akan menikahi wanita lain sampai aku meninggal nanti
Aku bukan tidak suka dengan poligamy..
Tapi aku hanya ingin kamu tau
Aku benar-benar ingin merawat dan menjaga kamu sendirian
Ingin merasakan cinta darimu sepenuhnya
Tak perlulah ada wanita lain yang menjagamu
Aku masih sanggup kok sayang :)
Bukankah akan lebih indah bila kehidupan kita hanya ada aku, kamu, dan anak-anak kita nantinya :)
Pasti akan lebih bahagia..

sayang.. Aku bukan wanita yang suka menuntun banyak hal
Tapi cukuplah kamu yang apa adanya yang memiliki aura dengan segala karismatik keperdulianmu terhadapku

Semoga aku dapat menjadi istri yang tidak akan memberatkan taggung jawabmu di akhirat kelak ya sayang:)

Semoga kita  dapat benar-benarterus bersama
Semoga cinta yang kita milikii karna ALLAH SWT
Semoga kita akan selalu berpedoman pada AL-Quran dalam menjalani hidup
Semoga menikah adalah tujuan kita beribadah karna mengikuti sunah Nabi Muhammad SAW
Dan semoga Allah senantiasa mejaga hati kita
Amiin..
I sayang Darl :)

for my Yut with love :*